Therapy of acceptance

They say, “move on, everyone has to depart. Deceased was with you till now only, try not to think about it anymore this is how cruel life is. 

It may seem doable, perhaps it is and it's not that I didn't try but I tried hard to escape the thoughts but believe me I couldn’t move even an inch. I would have thought it out but I’m not able to concentrate on anything I don’t want to think about anything either. 

He replied, “Listen my dear, when I lost someone dearest to me they said even same to me. They used to say how long will you dwell in the memories. It’s time to get out of them, not to think about it, move on with life and so on… but I didn’t care what they said. Yes it took me some time to accept the ghastly truth but once I swallowed and absorbed it with some efforts and time I never felt like forgetting her. I kept her thoughts, her positive memories, her love, her dreams they’re always with me. I never tried to move on rather I moved forward with all the memories that she had gifted me.

Now they will say, “it’s not easy to live with such loads of memories every time you unfold anyone of them you’ll be left wrecked and heartbroken. But once you learn to take all the positive ones filtered you’ll get a new spark in life, an inspiration, a motivation, solace, serenity and a way of life. Believe me it's never going to make you sad rather it will nourish you endlessly for the remaining part of your journey. You'll fall for every instinct of your life.

They will try hard not to remind you of what you have never forgotten. They’ll try to filter the unfilterable thoughts and even if they convince you it will be a tremendous painful struggle with no fruits. You’ll not be able to forget any of it either so acceptance will hold a therapy.

At the end we have to believe it, absorb it, accept it and it will certainly become the part of us infact the joyous and serenest of many.

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