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Therapy of acceptance

They say, “move on, everyone has to depart. Deceased was with you till now only, try not to think about it anymore this is how cruel life is.   It may seem doable, perhaps it is and it's not that I didn't try but I tried hard to escape the thoughts but believe me I couldn’t move even an inch. I would have thought it out but I’m not able to concentrate on anything I don’t want to think about anything either.  He replied, “Listen my dear, when I lost someone dearest to me they said even same to me. They used to say how long will you dwell in the memories. It’s time to get out of them, not to think about it, move on with life and so on… but I didn’t care what they said. Yes it took me some time to accept the ghastly truth but once I swallowed and absorbed it with some efforts and time I never felt like forgetting her. I kept her thoughts, her positive memories, her love, her dreams they’re always with me. I never tried to move on rather I moved forward with all the memorie